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Big Love: Secrets From Soulmates Arielle and Brian

by Arielle Ford and Brian Hilliard

Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction and her husband Brian Hilliard, a business consultant, answer your questions about life, love and relationships. They believe that whether you are eighteen or eighty years old finding Big Love is always possible. Email your questions to: soulmatesecret@yahoo.com

Hello Arielle & Brian,
I constantly have people telling me that I should pursue online dating. I am not sure if this is a sign from the Universe (or not) but I feel absolutely no inspiration whatsoever to do this. The idea just brings bad vibes. If you do not take the signs the universe provides, does it stop orchestrating ways of bringing you a soulmate. I know the LOA is always in play, but I am still concerned that since I am not acting on the universes sign (because there is no inspiration) that it still sends a negative message to the universe. Also I briefly met a man at my work (a customer) who looked exactly like the type of guy I visualized (right down to the exact shirt and jeans). Unfortunately I was too focused on my work too pay much attention to him. I am planning to visualize seeing this particular man again, but I’m wondering if that will limit my chances of manifesting anyone else just in case he isn’t my intended soulmate. Please advise!



Hi Bonnie,
We don’t believe that you have to force yourself to do anything you don’t want to do in order to manifest your soulmate. It sounds like online dating is NOT for you, so stop discussing it with other people and rehashing it with yourself.
Remember, the process of attracting your soulmate is one of magnetism. When you make the choice to live as if your soulmate is already a part of your life, you send out an irresistible signal to the Universe that you are ready now. Not a signal that you’ll be ready someday – when you work less and your house is clean and you’ve lost five pounds! Remember the famous line in the 1989 movie, Field of Dreams starring Kevin Costner? “If you build it, they will come.” Living as if is like flipping on a light switch inside your heart. This is the light your beloved will use to navigate his or her way to your door of love, care and appreciation.

If you stay focused on “knowing” that the one you asked for is ALREADY yours, and savor the waiting and love your life unconditionally, the right one will appear at the right time. If it happens to be the customer you described, how nice, but since you don’t even know anything about him except for his looks I think you will block other potential possible soulmates by focusing on a stranger.
Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,
Arielle and Brian

Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is one of the founding partners of the
Spiritual Cinema Circle, a DVD club dedicated to providing movies about love and compassion. She is the author of seven books including the HOT CHOCOLATE FOR THE MYSTICAL SOUL series and her newest book THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her husband and soulmate Brian Hilliard is a business consultant with a life-long interest in spirituality and the practice of compassion. They live in La Jolla, CA www.soulmatesecret.com and www.soulmatekit.com

Disclaimer: Arielle Ford, Brian Hilliard, the Big Love column and its publishers assume no responsibility for any consequence relating directly or indirectly to any action or inaction you take based on the information, services or other material related to this column.

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