Big Love: Secrets from Soulmates Arielle & Brian

Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction and her husband Brian Hilliard, a business consultant, answer your questions about life, love and relationships. They believe that whether you are eighteen or eighty years old finding Big Love is always possible. Email your questions to: soulmatesecret@yahoo.com

Dear Arielle and Brian,

I've always wondered is why we view the Law of Attraction as something that has to be activated, when it has been working in our lives all the time? Rather than focus mental force on positive results, isn't it more productive to associate cause and effect in determining how we have been creating what we have already? What is the use in substituting a different script consciously, when we haven't dealt with the scripts that are running subconsciously?

Every single one of us is a success in using the Law of Attraction, whether it’s for love, money or anything else. We simply haven't been claiming responsibility for what we've been attracting. What do you think?

Best wishes,

Stephanie

Dear Stephanie,

We completely agree with you. We are all Law of Attraction Masters and most of us don't even know it. When we begin focusing on our heart's desires, we are then open to realizing what has been blocking us… the unconscious thoughts, feelings and patterns that have been running us.

There is an old line that says, "if you want to see what you want in life, look at what you have." For many people, this is a bitter pill to swallow. So, when we can find a big enough carrot...such as the desire for success or for Big Love, then we begin to slowly open ourselves to looking for the ways we may be blocking the very thing we say we most desire in our lives. We must clear our emotional, energetic and psychic fields and become clear channels for our highest good. Not always an easy process but well worth the effort.

The steps to this include having a clear intention, taking time to feel in every cell of our body that what we have asked for IS already ours, practicing “living as if” so that our behavior and beliefs are in sync, savoring the waiting, and staying in a state of gratitude.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle & Brian

Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestselling book, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction and the upcoming book WabiSabi Love (www.wabisabilove.com) Her husband and soulmate Brian Hilliard is a business consultant with a life-long interest in spirituality and the practice of compassion. They live in La Jolla, CA www.soulmatesecret.com and www.soulmatekit.com

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